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Evidence-based parenting. Scripts, guides and stories for accompanying your child from day one.

• 7 phrases to never say during a tantrum (and what to say instead)
  April 27, 2026 · What you've been saying for years during every tantrum could be making the next one worse. Here are 7 harmful phrases + 7 alternatives that connect.
• Respectful parenting phrases: the complete guide (with science, no moralizing)
  April 27, 2026 · 40+ phrases for the key moments of attached parenting: tantrums, bedtime, separations, siblings. Evidence-based, ready to use today.
• Tantrums: the complete evidence-based guide (ages 1-6)
  April 27, 2026 · Why they happen, how long they last, what works at each age, and when to consult. A guide without moralizing — light neuroscience, concrete examples, ready-to-use phrases.